Apparently we do not have to do one thing. It is done to us for us by life. According to someone I trust to know who (I will not name) life happens to us and what we can contribute and the only thing we need to contribute is trust. When we "get in the way" that is when our trouble begins. Okay, so for me I go into panic mode...fear of not getting things done the way I like them. Immediately I will get bossy and start to control the environment by ordering and doing everything. I know this isn't team spirit and I have seen the absolute joy on the face of my loved ones when I don't "do " so much, I have. It's cultural this conditioning this rush to get "there" and get it done. I have been dreaming wild crazy very detailed and I must admit clear dreams. I get excited it's as if the unconscious is telling me something quite spectacular is maybe coming my way. I want to investigate when I wake up I want to call somebody. Then I sit in meditation and I realize no, I need to continue what I do and be open. See what comes. There is a path we are all on. We have a direction. There is fate...we just rarely get to know the mapping of it, the direction. I fancy those of us who seem to have a clear sense of their lives, will feel I am speaking "crazy talk". I am talking to you too. The heavily scheduled people who have not a moment free. Things are NOT in your control. Anything can and will happen. That is the beauty of life. That is the "rub"...shit happens.
So like my wise friend says; We sit ,stand, lie horizontal, the rest is a story.
What's your story?