Friday, July 19, 2013
Open mouth insert foot.
My, my, good morning America. I started the day being outed for referencing Oprah in a historical fashion her success and it was dissected and published on TMZ site. I cannot and will not take back anything said in my interview but my frankness will cause pain and for lazy people out there who cannot investigate and listen to my entire interview and who just want to hate me. There is nothing I can do...
I fancy I have a big heart but apparently I have a big mouth too. Someone said I looked like hell and was jealous and hateful to Oprah and I say "Okay, Yes" that is just as true. Still some things I suppose are best left unsaid does it matter that it happened to me and I wanted to get my side out? She is a billionaire and me not so much.
I am in a bit of shock honestly not sure how to respond and I want to respond. I yelled at TMZ because it was a witch burning and at my expense because they did not release the entire interview instead cut and pasted.
Here it is; https://www.transferbigfiles.com/add683e3-05fc-4333-ac00-bd7c0be40a42?rid=ZE2Ral76OKGntt5mTPfolg2
My body mind and soul are sad and exhausted with the tragedy of Trayvon Martin and all race relations. My reference to Oprah was to highlight her success against out pitiful history.
My bad for being so bold and obviously hurtful in my stupid word choices. I stand by my story just sad it was used this way...
TMZ really?
To all the haters have a listen and then judge.
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Haters gonna hate. Ignore them. Take care of those who care. It's the only way.
TMZ jumped at a chance to kiss the feet of Big-O. i say this, people can put her $$rich$$ ass on a pedastal, like a queen, if they chose to but they don't know her as you do. There are most likely many folks that wanted to speak as you have but lacked the courage to do so. Now, for show, Big-O is gonna talk highly of you and offer a helping hand to you, but inside she wants to hurt you physically. So be careful when you two do the upcoming television interview together... Also yes, the Tray thing is a very sad and unforgiving incident. Maybe if Tray had a stand-your-ground permit also, things may have had a different outcome.....PEACE... hope that Mr. Chong is doing fine.....
Please. Your comment was ignorant and rude to another woman period.
Oprah doesnt even have to respond to your complete idiotic comment of her stature in society.
You made it quite clear and obvious your envy of another women and her success in your profession of being a movie actress.
Whatever issues you have with your sister Oprah you should have been woman enough to set up a meeting and confront her about instead of displaying your racism against your own race.
Just because you are of a different hue of black you are still black and it is because of your ignorance that your career is where it is an Oprah is where she is.
This is an important moment for you. It's your opportunity to change & grow - or - continue on a path of anger, envy & bitterness. Search your heart. Know yourself. Make the changes that are needed. Only then will you be able to offer a REAL apology. Then...move on with your life!
This is an important moment for you. It's your opportunity to change & grow - or - continue on a path of anger, envy & bitterness. Search your heart. Know yourself. Make the changes that are needed. Only then will you be able to offer a REAL apology. Then...move on with your life!
My original story about Oprah had to do with something between us that happened when invited to do her show in 1985. I was asked about it. That I then proceeded to compliment her and her amazing achievement in a way that had colorful words. Sure gawd forbid we ever use the N word even if it is in a historical reference and not as a slight...which is how it was used. Now what is completely irritating is that I cannot tell my story and my experiences without it coming off jealous or bitter or what ever else. Interestingly that is exactly. If someone does something directly to you that was "off" is it always jealously? Can't i just be a story...an incidence does my repeating an ugly experience make me bad? In this narrow world thinking maybe. I hope one day you who are hating on me for telling MY STORY I hope one day you feel what it is like to be accused of something that just isn't true. I STAND BEHIND MY STORY and if my use of The n WORD OFFENDS YOU??? Then maybe you need to grow up. It is a word with a charged history for sure...and certainly I have had it flung at me in a vicious way. NONETHELESS it is just a word and I think it is word we need to reclaim and defang!!!
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